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Three Ways To End a Relationship: Letter writing and the Dialectics of Political Separatism

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posted on 2023-06-08, 06:13 authored by Margaretta JollyMargaretta Jolly
There are women who have decided not to have any further interaction with men, even to speak to a man collecting a ticket on a bus. Gays who no longer want to waste time with straights. Blacks who cant be bothered with whites. Disability activists who only wish to live and speak with others living with disabilities. Why do people become separatists? If the concept of separatism is known at all, it tends to offend for its apparently brutal refusal to accept a common humanity. In this paper, I look at letters that have been prompted by a notion of political separation and that try to articulate it as a necessary reason for ending a correspondence. In the case that forms the centerpiece of my discussion, that of a lesbian writing to end a friendship with an ex-boyfriend, I consider too, what happened when she wished to resume the correspondence some years later. I argue that such a return exemplifies a dialectical pattern of return in both correspondence and separatism.

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Publication status

  • Published

Publisher

Cambridge Scholars Press

Page range

111-125

Pages

14.0

Book title

Last Letters

Place of publication

Cambridge

ISBN

9781847184016

Department affiliated with

  • Centre for Community Engagement Publications

Research groups affiliated with

  • Centre for Life History and Life Writing Research Publications

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  • No

Peer reviewed?

  • Yes

Editors

Sylvie Crinquand

Legacy Posted Date

2012-02-06

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